Abusive Relationships aren't cool.

Its been awhile .

Sorry I have not written anything ... I had no inspiration .

But today I found some .

So I have this friend who is going out with an asshole, that never seems to fail at disappointing her. I don't get why she's dating this loser. He isn't even cute. The relationship has lasted over

a year, and every like 5 minutes there is a problem, She says she can't let go because she

"loves" him. He disrespects her friends [ including me]. And she's still with this low life.

I sometimes wish I could control people to do what is right for them, but thats obviously not how life works.

Especially at an age like this I don't get it, Why is she still with him ?

He spreads messed up rumors about her and flirts with other girls.

Like nigga are you serious ?

I wish a guy would do that to me, lets just say he wouldn't be able to have babies anymore

after I finished with his ass.

Your probably like this girl needs to stfu where is her boyfriend ?

Lmao your right where is my boyfriend ?

but no I don't want to have a boyfriend if thats how they come now a days.

I don't need a guy to complete me.

I rather be Miss. Independent for a little bit, then get myself into that.

Abusive doesn't mean only hitting it also means verbal abuse too.

I can't say that he verbally or physically abuses her. ( Hopefully not)

[ if he does sounds like another chris brown on our hands ]

[ And he is def about to get fucked up]

Signs of an abusive relationship

1. They always need to be alone,

if they want to be alone is one thing, but if all the time he insists they be alone,

and she wants to be with her friends .... looks like a problem.

This is probably the time he talks rudely and nasty to her. ( or hits her )

He is a coward and can't talk all his shit to her in front of her/his friends

so he needs to do it privately.

2. She seems depressed, upset all the time ...

It could be a sign of depression if she doesn't have a boyfriend [ have that checked out]

but if she has a boyfriend, and you know for sure there can't be anything else upsetting her

then they are obviously having problems alone, and she can't come to her friends cause she's embarrassed or he threatened her and she doesn't know what to do.

3. You notice he talks [ flirts] with other girls a lot and she doesn't have a problem with it ...

Being friendly is one thing, talking to another girl trying to spit your game is another.

She is probably so " in love" with her boyfriend she won't care about the flirting,

she will let it hurt instead of breaking it off .

Thats not even healthy, thats like cutting yourself without the razor.

If you notice all of these seem like a situation of your own or your friend's

please get help.

Get out of that, especially cause your young when your older it gets more serious.

Try to talk to a parent/guardian or counselor.

Or a trusting friend.

People these days use the word "love" like it's freakin water .

Love is a powerful word, and if you don't feel it don't use it.

You may think you can't live without this person, but what

about the years before when you didn't have that person?

Your still alive right ?

Something most people learn early in life is you cant depend on people.

Don't feel like you have to depend on that person.

Done with spreading my knowledge for today.

Over & Out .

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Can you determine a real friend over a fake one ?

Friends come and they go, there are real ones and fakes ones, and some of them are just haters.

but how do you know that this person you call your "friend" is really there for you.

What's a healthy relationship?

When do you know that the friendship your in is not good for you?

Well your lucky you have me then . =]

Fake Friends .

1. Drama.Drama.Drama. and more drama .

A "friend" that always brings a lot of drama into your life

is a person who loves to have you in there problems ..

thats not a friend at all.

Thats a person who is not happy with themselves

and likes to see other people unhappy with them ..

2. They love to put you down .

Thats called a H-A-T-E-R .

Not a friend .

You need to get out of that real quick .

cause that person is just so happy

all the time to see you not happy ... does that even sound

like a friend to you?

Push them to the side.

You can love your hater, just don't hang out with them ...

3. Cannot and will not hang out with you in front of the public .

This person who you call a friend obvious does not think

you are worthy to be seen with her in public.

In others words you need this person to fuck off .

Cause they are just fake .. enough said.

4. They want you to change .

If they want you to change why are they even your friend?

Friends love you for who you are.

Just let them go, they can find a friend somewhere else

and the way they obviously they want it .

Real Friends .

A real friend is just always there. Can support you threw any good or bad idea.

Does stupid shit with you. Loves you for you. Thats why they are your friend duh ...

Someone who makes you feel happy to be there friend. Someone who you can tell

all your secrets to and know that the whole school won't know by then end of the day.

this was inspired by all the bad and good relationships I have had or have .

Keep reading and following ,

Thankss.

Byee.

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Im starting to wonder if guys really care...... I just don't get it sometimes when one day they act like they like talking to you then another day they don't talk to you at all.I don't know if its all guys, but it sounds like it is.And its not the matter of them being your boyfriend, cause even when you have a boyfriend they don't hit you up. Its to the point where I just don't want to talk to guys anymore.But I don't want it to seem like boys are just bad, cause I don't know if they know the rules. and maybe this problem can charge for me and a lot of other girls.

Well I'll state the unsaid rules.

5 RULES GUYS SHOULD KNOW . [ If you want a girl that is...]

1. Show her you care .

Talk to her,compliment her, make her laugh ... all a good sign.

2. Be attentive .

Actually listen to what she says ... cause when she asks you about it again and you

don't know what the hell she's talking about, your in for some big problems.

3.NEVER,EVER,LIE .

Everyone lies, but when you can't keep up with those lies its not good.

First off it makes you look like a fool

Second its a 99.9 percent guarantee you just lost the girl

[ the 1 percent are the needy girls who dont care, they are too happy they " got a man"]

4. Calling is good,Stalking is bad .

Keeping in touch is GREAT! Girls love it when a guy calls

[ Because we like attention and it shows he cares]

I encourage it at least 1 once a day if she's a friend ..

I encourage it 3 times a day if she's more or you want her to be more then just a friend

your probably like wtf? 3 times a freakin day!

It shows her you care, and if you care you won't mind it that much.[ at least thats what we think .. ]

But if she's already your girlfriend, dont call her ALL the time .. makes you look needy

btw Girls dont like babies ... babies are needy.

5. R-E-S-P-E-C-T .

Respect her !

Even if she is just a friend, don't call her a bitch,whore,slut,etc.

Most girls don't like that, its rude.

And if you have a friend who is a girl and likes it...

she obviously doesn't care for being less value to you.

Yes I know a lot to take it.

But its just what some girls would like out of guys .

If you care enough Im sure you will learn,

and if you dont give a fuck about this ...

well I want to see you in 20 years.

And if you have a girlfriend/wife/baby mama

Praise the lord.

Well thats enough for today ... I shared enough of the little knowledge I know.

Bye.

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[ PS. this was inspired by Naiomi Brereton && Gina Nicolas ;)]

[PPS. Send this to your guy friends ... they need it]

Oh really ?

Yeah Its real I made a blog.

Its called mixture of boredum over the summer && I know a lot.

Ill be spitting out posts almost everyday.

Reading is good for you, especially when its good stuff.

Hope you keep reading my shit.

Thankss

Bye.

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