Sorry I have not written anything ... I had no inspiration .
But today I found some .
So I have this friend who is going out with an asshole, that never seems to fail at disappointing her. I don't get why she's dating this loser. He isn't even cute. The relationship has lasted over
a year, and every like 5 minutes there is a problem, She says she can't let go because she
"loves" him. He disrespects her friends [ including me]. And she's still with this low life.
I sometimes wish I could control people to do what is right for them, but thats obviously not how life works.
Especially at an age like this I don't get it, Why is she still with him ?
He spreads messed up rumors about her and flirts with other girls.
Like nigga are you serious ?
I wish a guy would do that to me, lets just say he wouldn't be able to have babies anymore
after I finished with his ass.
Your probably like this girl needs to stfu where is her boyfriend ?
Lmao your right where is my boyfriend ?
but no I don't want to have a boyfriend if thats how they come now a days.
I don't need a guy to complete me.
I rather be Miss. Independent for a little bit, then get myself into that.
Abusive doesn't mean only hitting it also means verbal abuse too.
I can't say that he verbally or physically abuses her. ( Hopefully not)
[ if he does sounds like another chris brown on our hands ]
[ And he is def about to get fucked up]
Signs of an abusive relationship
1. They always need to be alone,
if they want to be alone is one thing, but if all the time he insists they be alone,
and she wants to be with her friends .... looks like a problem.
This is probably the time he talks rudely and nasty to her. ( or hits her )
He is a coward and can't talk all his shit to her in front of her/his friends
so he needs to do it privately.
2. She seems depressed, upset all the time ...
It could be a sign of depression if she doesn't have a boyfriend [ have that checked out]
but if she has a boyfriend, and you know for sure there can't be anything else upsetting her
then they are obviously having problems alone, and she can't come to her friends cause she's embarrassed or he threatened her and she doesn't know what to do.
3. You notice he talks [ flirts] with other girls a lot and she doesn't have a problem with it ...
Being friendly is one thing, talking to another girl trying to spit your game is another.
She is probably so " in love" with her boyfriend she won't care about the flirting,
she will let it hurt instead of breaking it off .
Thats not even healthy, thats like cutting yourself without the razor.
If you notice all of these seem like a situation of your own or your friend's
please get help.
Get out of that, especially cause your young when your older it gets more serious.
Try to talk to a parent/guardian or counselor.
Or a trusting friend.
People these days use the word "love" like it's freakin water .
Love is a powerful word, and if you don't feel it don't use it.
You may think you can't live without this person, but what
about the years before when you didn't have that person?
Your still alive right ?
Something most people learn early in life is you cant depend on people.
Don't feel like you have to depend on that person.
Done with spreading my knowledge for today.
Over & Out .
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