Monday, July 20, 2009

Can you determine a real friend over a fake one ?

Friends come and they go, there are real ones and fakes ones, and some of them are just haters.
but how do you know that this person you call your "friend" is really there for you.
What's a healthy relationship?
When do you know that the friendship your in is not good for you?
Well your lucky you have me then . =]


Fake Friends .

1. Drama.Drama.Drama. and more drama .

A "friend" that always brings a lot of drama into your life
is a person who loves to have you in there problems ..
thats not a friend at all.
Thats a person who is not happy with themselves
and likes to see other people unhappy with them ..


2. They love to put you down .

Thats called a H-A-T-E-R .
Not a friend .
You need to get out of that real quick .
cause that person is just so happy
all the time to see you not happy ... does that even sound
like a friend to you?
Push them to the side.
You can love your hater, just don't hang out with them ...

3. Cannot and will not hang out with you in front of the public .

This person who you call a friend obvious does not think
you are worthy to be seen with her in public.
In others words you need this person to fuck off .
Cause they are just fake .. enough said.

4. They want you to change .

If they want you to change why are they even your friend?
Friends love you for who you are.
Just let them go, they can find a friend somewhere else
and the way they obviously they want it .

Real Friends .


A real friend is just always there. Can support you threw any good or bad idea.
Does stupid shit with you. Loves you for you. Thats why they are your friend duh ...
Someone who makes you feel happy to be there friend. Someone who you can tell
all your secrets to and know that the whole school won't know by then end of the day.


this was inspired by all the bad and good relationships I have had or have .

Keep reading and following ,
Thankss.
Byee.

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Monday, July 13, 2009

Im starting to wonder if guys really care...... I just don't get it sometimes when one day they act like they like talking to you then another day they don't talk to you at all.I don't know if its all guys, but it sounds like it is.And its not the matter of them being your boyfriend, cause even when you have a boyfriend they don't hit you up. Its to the point where I just don't want to talk to guys anymore.But I don't want it to seem like boys are just bad, cause I don't know if they know the rules. and maybe this problem can charge for me and a lot of other girls.
Well I'll state the unsaid rules.

5 RULES GUYS SHOULD KNOW . [ If you want a girl that is...]

1. Show her you care .
Talk to her,compliment her, make her laugh ... all a good sign.

2. Be attentive .
Actually listen to what she says ... cause when she asks you about it again and you
don't know what the hell she's talking about, your in for some big problems.

3.NEVER,EVER,LIE .
Everyone lies, but when you can't keep up with those lies its not good.
First off it makes you look like a fool
Second its a 99.9 percent guarantee you just lost the girl
[ the 1 percent are the needy girls who dont care, they are too happy they " got a man"]

4. Calling is good,Stalking is bad .
Keeping in touch is GREAT! Girls love it when a guy calls
[ Because we like attention and it shows he cares]
I encourage it at least 1 once a day if she's a friend ..
I encourage it 3 times a day if she's more or you want her to be more then just a friend
your probably like wtf? 3 times a freakin day!
It shows her you care, and if you care you won't mind it that much.[ at least thats what we think .. ]
But if she's already your girlfriend, dont call her ALL the time .. makes you look needy
btw Girls dont like babies ... babies are needy.

5. R-E-S-P-E-C-T .
Respect her !
Even if she is just a friend, don't call her a bitch,whore,slut,etc.
Most girls don't like that, its rude.
And if you have a friend who is a girl and likes it...
she obviously doesn't care for being less value to you.


Yes I know a lot to take it.
But its just what some girls would like out of guys .
If you care enough Im sure you will learn,
and if you dont give a fuck about this ...
well I want to see you in 20 years.
And if you have a girlfriend/wife/baby mama
Praise the lord.

Well thats enough for today ... I shared enough of the little knowledge I know.

Bye.

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[ PS. this was inspired by Naiomi Brereton && Gina Nicolas ;)]
[PPS. Send this to your guy friends ... they need it]

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Oh really ?

Yeah Its real I made a blog.
Its called mixture of boredum over the summer && I know a lot.
Ill be spitting out posts almost everyday.
Reading is good for you, especially when its good stuff.
Hope you keep reading my shit.
Thankss
Bye.

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